“Life exists on many other worlds.” He spread her thighs wider, his eyes roaming down her body. As he walks down the street he sees a handsome boy and takes notice of him (A gangster). It was that demonstration that got the attention of college officials, and led to the suspension of all fraternities, until further notice. The BDSM consent paradigm doesn’t apply to the fictional scenario that you are reading. In fact, members of BDSM communities heavily emphasize consent — especially from the submissive. Now here is the problem: romance rape scenes are not framed in the vein of safe, consensual BDSM play. It’s why many authors put disclaimers in their novel descriptions when it contains graphic, intense or kinky scenes. But in the end, the why is not as important as framing these fantasies in a healthy way, and understanding what this means for women in terms of sexuality and consent

The BDSM consent paradigm doesn’t apply to the fictional scenario that you are reading. Because, again, consent applies to this fantasy. And, again, as an up-and-coming erotica novelist…I’m into it. Just don’t be a raping bastard in practice and don’t use erotica to justify being a raping bastard. I don’t waste time. Here BDSM partners employ safewords, so the submissive can refuse at any time without breaking the fantasy of the “non-consent”. You, the reader, are the dominant, the author the submissive, and the penning of the book for distribution is the author’s consent for you to indulge in the fantasy they wrote (and don’t forget that you can revoke consent too, by putting the book down). When it comes down to it, “rape fantasies” are a type of submission fantasy, and this is where nomenclature matters. It has some quirks and there’s rumors that it is closing down. You, the reader, are the submissive, the author the dominant, and closing the book is the safeword. I am thrilled to hear you got through the anniversary of your rape and are doing so well. The young woman did not know what happened after they got back to his flat, but she woke to find herself naked and with him lying behind her, also naked, ‘spooning her’

And as someone currently penning a romance erotica novel, I have to say…I’m into it. There are no safe words or trust, women are often truly resistant and terrified out of their minds, and there is no stopping a romance “hero” once he has begun forcing himself on the heroine. Now here is the problem: romance rape scenes are not framed in the vein of safe, consensual BDSM play. To quote San Francisco sex therapist Linda Alperstein: “Sex and life run on separate tracks.” In general, sex therapists believe that power-play sex (under which consenting non-consent play would fall) isn’t harmful and should have little to no consequence outside of the bedroom. Not me. I’ll play the slut. I’ll tell you what’s ok or what’s not and you need to pay attention. Go to Genesis 10, Verse15-20 and you’ll see that the descendants of Canaan actually end up populating a large portion of what’s now the Middle East

But it is people like yourself that open the door to discussion and acceptance of a men endulging themselves in what has traditionally been the domain of women. Let a man walk down the street or attend a formal function (e.g. black tie events where the men are all forced to cover everything up) with that amount of skin exposure today, and you’ll have people giggling and sneering, “GAY! ” at best, and “MEATHEAD” at worst. Togas were designed to fit and flatter a man’s torso the way a cocktail dress is designed to flatter a woman’s, and men left their bare back and arms open to plain sight. His sentence will not begin until the half way point of his current 11 year jail term. The bulletin boards were ‘a great way to get cracked games,’ O’Rourke said, adding that he later realized his habit wasn’t morally defensible and stopped. He kept commenting on how great they felt. If they can laugh at a provocatively dressed man like that, then what does that make them when they’re butt naked? And then there’s the make up OMG, I just love putting that stuff on and having sexy beautiful eyes

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